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sacral work


Unbalanced sacral energy: resentful, guilty, controlling, jealous… addictions, hormone imbalance, impotence, frigidity, uterine bladder or kidney challenges, low back stiffness pain, female reproduction ailments… depression, fear, pain, withdrawn


Sacral nerves … Sacral ganglion… lower abdomen genitals womb...

challenges… infertility, menstrual problems, digestive problems, anemia.. etc

Those that work in the sensual awakening, sex edu and tantra field most have a strong practice with the sacral chakra
 Ovaries, testicles, womb, genitals, kidney, bladder, circulatory system(mammary glands, skin)
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Spirituality and Sexuality

Spirituality and Sexuality is something that should be taught definitely to those that are ready to learn. Sex is one of the most powerful forms of creation, manifestation and birthing on the planet. Of course most of us know that it is the catalyst to creating human beings but some of us weren’t taught that it is also a catalyst for creating alot of things in our life as well. At least I know that wasn’t something I was taught growing up. Now since most of us weren’t taught this is one of the reasons I feel monogamy was created because if you are not aware of this great power than people cannot and probably wont act responsibly.

So celibacy before monogamy makes sense for those who are not taught who they are early in life or for those that shouldn’t be taught this due to not being able to discipline themselves or due to malicious behaviors. Now being celibate will not stop the attraction and urges we have, and there is nothing wrong with these feelings they are a part of our human make up we release hormones that cause us to feel this way and then the energy we exude attracts those that we match vibrations with.Someone may lack something we can fulfill and vice versa, and this is a calling for evolution for growth. Now how could that feeling ever be something negative… right? Well negativity in this natural process comes forth within the intent of a person and that’s where awareness is definitely important.

 How I feel people should be taught is that in this life you won’t necessarily stay with one person for the rest of your life.. you may have a calling that quick evolution is necessary and I mean necessary not just for self but for human kind and the planet. I mean that’s the reason we are here anyway right? Of course spiritually we are here for others and have the pleasure as well to manifest the life we love. We also may need to be with one person or no one for the same reasons of growth and evolution depending on our purpose in this life.

Now as for manifesting with using sexual energy we don’t necessarily have to have sex and this is important I feel to teach our children who are just starting to learn self and may not be ready for the responsibility of using sexual energy with others just yet. What we can do is when we feel those urges is learn to harness manipulate and use that sensual energy to better ourselves pushing us to help others. That I feel is the first lesson before we actually have sex is to work internally with self. So yes I feel celibacy is definitely first learning to control, cultivate and use that sensual energy not allowing it to use you. When I say use you I mean having urges and just acting on them when it may not be in the best interest of either person for multiple reasons.

As for monogamy I feel that will be different for each person no I do not agree with promiscuity because that may lead to mental illness again not knowing self and allowing sexual energy to control the self. Multiple partners should be for those that are in the practice of disciplining self thru whatever spiritual method they have chosen, and in that form connecting with others could be magical, and as I said before this walk is not for everyone but what is important is to know the heart and to act with wisdom.

Well have a blessed and blissful day…talk to you soon.

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Tantric Relationships

I recently spoke briefly on the pain and drama I endured in past relationships and how I worked towards healing myself. Now I know the reason I went through what I went through because of 1st the capability to be able to come out of each situation and still continue to spread positive energy with a story to tell. The Divine doesn’t put anything on you can’t carry and conquer! Another reason was because what I had to offer each person I was with. I was doing tantra even in the years I knew nothing of tantra…now of course looking at my previous posts I did not know how to stay strong and flourish in those situations which caused difficult times for me, but I was doing spiritual work all the same. I enjoy laughing, chatting, dancing, politicn and motivating people it feels wonderful. I probably should have been an actress long time ago at least in theater that is. Haha nah…. Let’s go a little deeper into this…So who ever I was with man, woman or just close friends I offered this tantra that would vibrate the moment and we would dance spiritually for as long as the Divine saw fit. The relationship would go on to the point where there wasn’t an open door for change. Where either me or the other person couldn’t or wouldn’t evolve any further. At this point then it was time to move on. Evolution does cause some discomfort sometimes even pain so of course most people don’t like that ish lol So if what I showed or how I pushed wasn’t understood or accepted they would become upset with me and that would cause arguments. Some also would become distant and not just distant to pounder and return but distant in a way that I would be pushed away. Now of course you know these reactions don’t work well for happy relationships. So eventually we started to dislike one another and then what we built comes tumbling down.

OK Ok just so you don’t think I was this O so conscious guru haha I was not it’s just something that just happens I push people’s limits as well as motivate them and in the mean time give them sweet delicious intimacy(not always sexual by the way so get your head out of the clouds lol). Now of course relationships are a two way street in evolution so I was getting class time too sometimes my teachers were real sweet and sometimes they were treacherous either way it went I had something to learn too. Some I learned a lot from right then and some not till years later. All this to say every single one of us are tantra teachers by nature just because truth is every relationship is for our spiritual growth. …now the question is are we going to get the lessons or not, but that’s a whole nutter story.

OK  so before I close this blog out let’s talk about tantra a bit which I altered the term to best fit me my her story and the work I do. I now call it sensual awakening sensual – not just related to sexual activity but has to do with your 6+ senses the five that we all know so well; 

•sight (using our ocular vision) 





And then there is our 6 sense being able to go beyond just the basic senses and “feel” instead of just touch… “view” instead of just see and so on. So sensual awakening to me is using these senses for you and others evolution…and becoming aware of the process so you can practice intentionally to help others. This is me elaborating on my connections with people and of course it wasn’t just “danger danger will robinson” No not at all it was growth.Hey had so much fun sharing today if you have something you have been through man O man I probably have too. Lol so please drop me a line and I will tell my story.