Spirituality and Sexuality is something that should be taught definitely to those that are ready to learn. Sex is one of the most powerful forms of creation, manifestation and birthing on the planet. Of course most of us know that it is the catalyst to creating human beings but some of us weren’t taught that it is also a catalyst for creating alot of things in our life as well. At least I know that wasn’t something I was taught growing up. Now since most of us weren’t taught this is one of the reasons I feel monogamy was created because if you are not aware of this great power than people cannot and probably wont act responsibly.
So celibacy before monogamy makes sense for those who are not taught who they are early in life or for those that shouldn’t be taught this due to not being able to discipline themselves or due to malicious behaviors. Now being celibate will not stop the attraction and urges we have, and there is nothing wrong with these feelings they are a part of our human make up we release hormones that cause us to feel this way and then the energy we exude attracts those that we match vibrations with.Someone may lack something we can fulfill and vice versa, and this is a calling for evolution for growth. Now how could that feeling ever be something negative… right? Well negativity in this natural process comes forth within the intent of a person and that’s where awareness is definitely important.
How I feel people should be taught is that in this life you won’t necessarily stay with one person for the rest of your life.. you may have a calling that quick evolution is necessary and I mean necessary not just for self but for human kind and the planet. I mean that’s the reason we are here anyway right? Of course spiritually we are here for others and have the pleasure as well to manifest the life we love. We also may need to be with one person or no one for the same reasons of growth and evolution depending on our purpose in this life.
Now as for manifesting with using sexual energy we don’t necessarily have to have sex and this is important I feel to teach our children who are just starting to learn self and may not be ready for the responsibility of using sexual energy with others just yet. What we can do is when we feel those urges is learn to harness manipulate and use that sensual energy to better ourselves pushing us to help others. That I feel is the first lesson before we actually have sex is to work internally with self. So yes I feel celibacy is definitely first learning to control, cultivate and use that sensual energy not allowing it to use you. When I say use you I mean having urges and just acting on them when it may not be in the best interest of either person for multiple reasons.
As for monogamy I feel that will be different for each person no I do not agree with promiscuity because that may lead to mental illness again not knowing self and allowing sexual energy to control the self. Multiple partners should be for those that are in the practice of disciplining self thru whatever spiritual method they have chosen, and in that form connecting with others could be magical, and as I said before this walk is not for everyone but what is important is to know the heart and to act with wisdom.
Well have a blessed and blissful day…talk to you soon.