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Spirituality and Sexuality

Spirituality and Sexuality is something that should be taught definitely to those that are ready to learn. Sex is one of the most powerful forms of creation, manifestation and birthing on the planet. Of course most of us know that it is the catalyst to creating human beings but some of us weren’t taught that it is also a catalyst for creating alot of things in our life as well. At least I know that wasn’t something I was taught growing up. Now since most of us weren’t taught this is one of the reasons I feel monogamy was created because if you are not aware of this great power than people cannot and probably wont act responsibly.

So celibacy before monogamy makes sense for those who are not taught who they are early in life or for those that shouldn’t be taught this due to not being able to discipline themselves or due to malicious behaviors. Now being celibate will not stop the attraction and urges we have, and there is nothing wrong with these feelings they are a part of our human make up we release hormones that cause us to feel this way and then the energy we exude attracts those that we match vibrations with.Someone may lack something we can fulfill and vice versa, and this is a calling for evolution for growth. Now how could that feeling ever be something negative… right? Well negativity in this natural process comes forth within the intent of a person and that’s where awareness is definitely important.

 How I feel people should be taught is that in this life you won’t necessarily stay with one person for the rest of your life.. you may have a calling that quick evolution is necessary and I mean necessary not just for self but for human kind and the planet. I mean that’s the reason we are here anyway right? Of course spiritually we are here for others and have the pleasure as well to manifest the life we love. We also may need to be with one person or no one for the same reasons of growth and evolution depending on our purpose in this life.

Now as for manifesting with using sexual energy we don’t necessarily have to have sex and this is important I feel to teach our children who are just starting to learn self and may not be ready for the responsibility of using sexual energy with others just yet. What we can do is when we feel those urges is learn to harness manipulate and use that sensual energy to better ourselves pushing us to help others. That I feel is the first lesson before we actually have sex is to work internally with self. So yes I feel celibacy is definitely first learning to control, cultivate and use that sensual energy not allowing it to use you. When I say use you I mean having urges and just acting on them when it may not be in the best interest of either person for multiple reasons.

As for monogamy I feel that will be different for each person no I do not agree with promiscuity because that may lead to mental illness again not knowing self and allowing sexual energy to control the self. Multiple partners should be for those that are in the practice of disciplining self thru whatever spiritual method they have chosen, and in that form connecting with others could be magical, and as I said before this walk is not for everyone but what is important is to know the heart and to act with wisdom.

Well have a blessed and blissful day…talk to you soon.

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Cervical Orgasm

The Cervix, The Cervix, The Cervix…  O MY!

A question came to me about my experiences with cervical orgasms so I decided to do a Q&A….

My experiences on cervical orgasms are they can be beautiful and very healing. As the pic shows below the cervix is connected to our energy center that vibrates love for others, kindness, self love and a few others that I will talk about at a later date, but the tip of the penis is connected to that heart center too… Spirituality Sexuality and healing of the human body. If we are stimulating the cervix the sensitive tip of the penis is what is causing the stimulation and heart centers are vibing together.

With this being said not only is the heart center being stimulated and in some people the sexual pleasure is heightened but now we are shaking things up in our aura bodies. If he or she or even she and she* has lessons to learn in this place during this lifetime things are going to start to surface, and not necessarily at this very moment but believe me its possible. Feelings of complete bliss, happiness, overwhelming orgasms could take place or even tears, sadness or rejection could happen depending on what the person is going through.

Now please don’t let this deter you from a wonderful experience if this is something you do enjoy but the work that I do is all about sensual awakening. I say this because I enjoy action of sex but it also has propelled me to places that I didn’t innerstand so if you are married or in a long term relationship that is willing to go through the ups and downs with you then awesome if not then having a close friend, tantra consultant, or a therapist is a yes yes yes too.

Here is a short video check it out…


*P.S just because I speak on him and her connections does not mean that I leave out lesbian or gay connections as well. With this particular Q&A it only deals with the female and cervical penetration that can be done alone with a tantric wand/dildo, with a male and female partner using his penis as well as a lesbian couple also using a strap on, dildo, or cervix stimulating toy.

Also for those that would like to be a little more advanced yoni eggs play during this time can enhance the sensation and the healing.

Oh also if you have pain during cervical sex please discontinue, this includes deep penetration with a penis or dildo and wait a couple of days. If it continues please go see your health care provider for further assistance.

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Say yes to Celibacy?

Say Yes to Celibacy?

Yes I said say yes to celibacy for a few different reasons….


  1. If you are a teenager and have no idea what sex can create the positives and the challenges.
  2. If you are an adult and have gone through relationship trauma, in between break ups, surgery and other ailments.
  3. If you are in a monogamous committed relationship and you and your mate have decided on abstinence while away from one another.

Now Of course there may be other reasons why a person decides to refrain from sexual contact with other people…but these I have come across with talking to people.

Celibacy doesn’t have to be dreaded even though it can be a challenge due to our bodies secrete hormones that attract us to a mate and give us the drive to “Pro-Create”.  Pheromones for instance are secreted from our bodies signaling our perfect mating partners. Testosterone in men and women raises the desire to want to have sex. Naturally for women during ovulation sexual desire is heightened telling the body it is time to find a mate and connect. Men I feel have these strong desires often as well stronger during when testosterone is in abundance than when its not.  If Celibate time to learn and connect with thyself within masturbation, meditation or even yoga.. or great time to have a stronger bond with the Divine energy reading spiritual scriptures chanting and prayer.

*So disciplining our natural urges can be a challenge

As for my first feeling for celibacy people who unaware what sexual energy can create should go through a lesson of learning themselves and this I feel includes if not the most important learning their anatomy and Physiology. Getting a better innerstanding that what they are feeling is a natural part of who they are and how they were made. Then being taught the cause and effects of having sex physically and also learning the spiritual nature of connecting intimately with someone. After this we can go forward in telling them masturbation is not negative it is a way of learning what pleases us and teaches us how to connect and learn our bodies before anyone else shares their opinion on what they like and don’t like.

I could go on forever about celibacy and the very first interactions with who we are intimately, but lets go on to number two relationship traumas, break ups, and other times needed for healing.  There are times in our lives when we have connected with others to a point where we are depleted and within this we have forgotten who we are and how to love ourselves.  This can lead to negative situations in our life, and the best thing for us to do is get back to our own self intimacy. Celibacy so we can heal, so we can reconnect to who we truly are and so we can get back to being able to share our affections with others.  In this place of healing, I feel we go through the same process the person who is just starting to learn themselves goes through but difference is we have to forgive ourselves and those that we may have assumed hurt us and that is another process. Self love and forgiveness is the goal here and I also feel self-exploration is a positive in this process. Getting to know and love the body all over again before moving on to sharing with someone else. (If you have a mate and need to heal Celibacy should be discussed and hopefully they nourish you during your healing process)

Last but of course not least because being away from a partner for a long period of time can be the most challenging of the three, but with this Celibacy can look a little different. Celibacy can be the same in getting to know yourself and connecting with self intimacy but with this, you can connect with your mate as well. Taking that built up energy and sending it to your love through phone conversations, letters and face to face time if able. So no need to be completely celibate even if it is limited time with your honey, because self-intimacy can turn into sending sensual energy to that other person and believe me the connection is real. Now this doesn’t mean that just because you have a mate to send love to that you don’t need self healing as well. I feel it is definitely is needed due to the sadness created from missing the other person loving self should be added to your to do list for sure. This will release some anger, anxiety and depression that you do not want to give to your mate during the short time that you do have to connect.

So yes…yes…yes this was an extensive but short description on what I feel about celibacy. If you need practices to get through these times maybe I can help. So don’t be down on yourself but get down to working on yourself.

Peace and Love